When we don’t have what we want, and we don’t know how we are going to get it, we tend to live in a state of ‘need’!
‘Needing’ things sends a BIG/BOLD/ANNOYING message out to the universe that we are needy, and guess what, the universe delivers just that, more things we NEED, instead of giving us the things we desire.
NEEDING something is such a negative vibration, but one we often turn to when we really want something.
“I really need new tyres on my car”
“I really need a holiday”
“I really need a new job, I hate this one”
When you use the word ‘need’ you are coming from a place of lack. When you are in a place of abundance, if new tyres were required you would simply book your car in and have new ones put on. Need usually means that you can’t have what you want right now.
It is so important to not focus in this negative place of need, and find a way to re-word what you really desire, so the energy you send out is returned with positive results. I have two favourite ways of re-wording the things I would like, simply choose the one you prefer or use them both. Putting your desires out there with the force of positive energy behind them, brings much better results, quickly!
The first one is I AM SAY YES TO…………
“I AM SAYING YES TO A NEW CAR”
“I AM SAYING YES TO MORE HOLIDAYS”
“I AM SAYING YES TO HAVING MY PERFECT JOB”
“I AM SAYING YES TO ROMANCE”
“I AM SAYING YES TO A NEW TV”
“I AM SAYING YES……..TO WHAT EVER IT IS YOU WANT”……..feel the energy difference when you list all the things you ‘need’ and replace your thoughts with ‘I am say yes to……..”
The second one is I AM LOVING……….
“I AM LOVING HAVING A HOUSEKEEPER”
“I AM LOVING HAVING FRESH FLOWERS DELIVERED EVERY WEEK”
“I AM LOVING SHOPPING FOR A NEW WARDROBE OF CLOTHES”
“I AM LOVING CANDLELIT DINNERS”
It does not matter what you would love to have in your life……..use the words I AM LOVING in front of the desire and just feel the positive energy you are placing on that desire!
Changing the way you talk to yourself is a powerful way to change what you see in your life. Spend a few minutes making a list of all the things you desire, and re-write your script using either of the above starts, both work well, simply pick the one that makes you feel the best and use these newly created affirmations to help draw into your life the things you truly desire.
You are energy after all and so is everything on that list, so get into positive mode and watch the changes that take place.
What do you have to stop NEEDING?